Since March of this year I have been fascinated by the domestic quarrel a Gisele Bundchen and her ball-throw Husband. While I don’t mind a bit of harmless glee, especially when it comes to the very rich and powerful among us, I should say that I find no measurable joy in a familysuffers. But something about Gisele and her crumbling relationship with husband and longtime NFL quarterback Tom Brady felt worthy of discussion.
On Tuesday, things shifted from innocent speculation to a full war, how page six reported that Gisele and Brady had both hired divorce attorneys. TMZ reported Tuesday night when the marriage was “apparently over” and the search for lawyers was several weeks past and the couple to have lived separately for the last few months. The couple are reportedly discussing joint custody of their children and preparing for the split of their $26 million real estate portfolio. page six noted that Brady’s estimated total net worth is around $250 million, while Gisele didn’t mention it worth around $400 million.
The writing on the wall was pretty clear for them last six months. There was the time of Missed Buccaneers training camp in the summer – unthinkable for the leader of a football team, barring a family emergency or death. Shortly after Rumors of the couple’s breakup Fall off at the beginning of September, it was prickly ell cover story in which Gisele dropped flashy nuggets like, “I’ve done my part, that is [to] be there for [Tom]’ and ‘I feel very fulfilled as a mother and as a wife. And now it’s my turn.” Less than a week later, Brady was caught having a tantrum on the sidelines, threw his helmet and a team tablet onto the manicured lawn. Then there was this gaunt press photo Mid-September, which is when Brady performed haunted by the ghost of an old woman who was once despised. On September 26, the couple’s children took part Brady’s first home game of the season without his mother – a rare occurrence sighting.
I’m fascinated by the Americana of everything. Tom Brady is by most accounts the poster child of a species pure American masculinity. He has paid millions of dollars a year to compete in a sport that paints helmet-to-helmet violence as a glittering display of strength and chutzpah, playing the role of man as protector. His coveted job as a leader on the soccer field became a metaphor for men around the world and allowed fans to project God-given morality into the other areas of Brady’s life as well. He’s classically handsome. He had one of the most famous international supermodels on his arm – an objectively stunning martyr, dutifully standing by his side through the losses and the moves and the brain-wrecking duels – and several beautiful, toe-headed Children, to boot. The proof was in the pigskin: Brady had it all.
But if marriage is really over energy– on men’s ability to own, control and benefit from women, their bodies and their finances – well here is a man who has all the power and control in the world, and quiethe cannot keep them.
Unlike some of the most high-profile Hollywood divorces in recent years, there are no rumors of infidelity, abuse or money robbery in the demise of one of sports’ most respected couples. All cowering anti-feminist attitudes are null here. Gisele is not after his money; she has her own. She’s not riding the coattails of his career; she has her own. In the divorce court and In the court of public opinion, one party always prevails, and in this case, despite all the sexist laws of the social order, that person is undoubtedly Gisele.
With a league as dominant as the NFL, which regularly reaches 184 million fans (more than half of the American population)the history of A woman leaving a man like Tom Brady challenges society’s ideas about what an ideal husband or marriage or family should look.
For more than a decade, Gisele played second fiddle to her husband, doing chores around their house and raising their children while Tom flew across the country to play games. No this decision was of course questioned, because he’s the quarterback the man of the house the default leader. In leaving Tom Brady, Gisele leaves a powerful blueprint for millions of American women tired of sacrificing their own dreams take the lion’s share maintain and accept the monotony and mediocrity from many heterosexual marriages. To paint this cultural moment as Brady losing his invincibility diminishes its impact – this is about Gisele shocked The picture of the perfect American nuclear family.
Maybe it just didn’t work out, you say. Sure, maybe! My friends at Deadspin have assured me that Brady is the comeback king – that maybe this is just a tremor at the fault line. But it is feels like some kind earthquake for me.
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